Monday, April 20, 2009

Pictures!

Here's big sister holding her new baby brother. I'm told Ella is doing as well as can be expected considering she was absolutely certain she was getting a baby sister!


And here's cutie patootie himself:

Sunday, April 19, 2009

It's A........

BOY!

Welcome Jacob Samuel!

April 19th, 2009 6:45am
7 pounds, 3 ounces
20 inches long

This is Irene's friend Cammie. She asked me to inform you all that baby Varga, now known as Jacob Samuel has arrived! Apparently, just like his sister, he was not going to stick with a pre-scheduled date (she had a scheduled c-section planned for tomorrow morning) and arrived on his own terms at 6:45 this morning. When I talked to her last night, she was having a few contractions, but by midnight was having about one an hour. By 3am they were on their way to the hospital where the little monkey apparently kicked through and broke the water. Anyways, everyone is doing well....tired, but well. They are going to try and send a few pictures later, so be on the lookout!

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Ella is famous again

O.k. so I have not been good about keeping up on this, but in my defense I am 39 months pregnant. So this was a class that we took Ella to and they did a newspaper article on her. She was very excited about it.

How To Be a Big Sister
AMH preparation course prepares siblings for the new arrival

By Linda Ober
Contributing Editor

Four-and-a-half-year-old Ella Varga comes to class dressed for the occasion, proudly wearing a long-sleeved brown shirt that announces her new role come April 20: "Big Sister."

The minute Ella walks into the classroom in the Auburn Memorial Hospital Maternity Unit, her shyness disappears, and she gravitates toward the baby doll resting on the table.

"She's a good big sister already. Look at that – she knows," Registered Nurse Debra Oliveras says as Ella gently picks up the doll and cradles it in her tiny arms.

Oliveras has taught the sibling preparation course at AMH for the last decade.

Parents Irene and Luke Varga, of Auburn, wanted Ella to take the class because their daughter hasn't had exposure to newborns, and because they noticed that Ella had started acting out at times due to her anxiety with having a younger brother or sister (the sex will be a surprise when Irene undergoes a C-section at AMH).

The idea behind the program is to offer siblings-to-be a sneak peak of what the new baby will and won't do and how the older child can be helpful to both the baby and the parents.

"(It's) just so that they're not surprised when the baby comes, and that they don't resent the baby," Oliveras says.

The class, which is free to those delivering at AMH, also focuses on safety. In one activity, Oliveras asks Ella to pull various items out of a plastic container and determine whether or not they would be a safe toy for her new sibling.

A small, soft duck stuffed animal?

"This would be OK," Ella says matter-of-factly.

"What do you think about that?" Oliveras asks, holding up a deflated red balloon.

"No!" Ella replies seriously.

"Boy, you are good at this," Oliveras says in her soft-spoken manner. "I can't stump you at all."

The main event of the one-hour class is a project in which the child decorates a photo of himself or herself. This craft will then be hung in the newborn's crib.

"The baby can't see, but they don't know that," Oliveras says with a laugh. "It makes them [the older sibling] feel important."

Armed with a purple marker, Ella carefully pens E-l-l-a, the latter letter backwards.

"I'll write my name so that the baby knows who it's from," she says.

Placing music-note stickers on her photo, she explains that she's "singing to the baby" and breaks out into an original version of "Rockabye Baby."

Oliveras then takes the Varga family on a tour of the maternity unit. There are no newborns on this day, and Ella has an all-access pass to the nursery.

After asking questions about the machines and taking a look at the scale, she sits in the same rocking chair that her father held her in as a newborn just four years ago.

"She's a very loving little girl," Luke says of his daughter.

After the class, Oliveras presents Ella with a certificate of graduation. "Congratulations Ella," it reads. "You are ready to be a big sister."

Irene believes this is true.

"She likes to help, so if we play on that aspect of it…then I think she'll do OK," Irene says of Ella's older sibling duties.

One thing she won't be allowed to do, however, is name the newborn. Ella is convinced that Mom is having another girl, and Ella's got the name all picked out.

Princess Pretty.